Talents and Skills Entry: Good Listening Skills

As writers, we want to make our characters as unique and interesting as possible. One way to do this is to give your character a special skill or talent that sets him apart from other people. This might be something small, like having a green thumb or being good with animals, to a larger and more competitive talent like stock car racing or being an award-winning film producer. 

When choosing a talent or skill, think about the personality of your character, his range of experiences and who his role models might have been. Some talents might be genetically imparted while others are created through exposure (such as a character talented at fixing watches from growing up in his father’s watch shop) or grow out of interest (archery, wakeboarding, or magic). Don’t be afraid to be creative and make sure the skill or talent is something that works with the scope of the story. 

Description: Being a good listener means paying close attention to people, hearing what they say, and understanding what they mean.

Beneficial Strengths or Abilities: intense focus, the ability to pay attention for long periods of time without being distracted, having good recall

Character Traits Suited for this Skill or Talent: observant, perceptive, empathetic, being able to read people, caring, unselfish, patient, open-minded

Associated Stereotypes and Perceptions: women; maternal types; therapists and counselors; con artists

Scenarios Where this Skill Might be Useful:

  • when a relationship is in trouble and needs mending
  • when there is conflict between characters and a subjective viewpoint is needed
  • when a character is being deceptive (a careful listener may hear discrepancies in someone’s story or pick up on tells)
  • when someone needs to feel loved and cared for
  • if you want to lure someone into a false sense of love and security
  • when you need to get information out of someone

Resources for Further Information:

Ten Steps to Effective Listening

You can brainstorm other possible Skills and Talents your characters might have by checking out our FULL LIST of this Thesaurus Collection. And for more descriptive help for Setting, Symbolism, Character Traits, Physical Attributes, Emotions, Weather and more, check out our Thesaurus Collections page.


Becca Puglisi is an international speaker, writing coach, and bestselling author of The Emotion Thesaurus and its sequels. Her books are available in five languages, are sourced by US universities, and are used by novelists, screenwriters, editors, and psychologists around the world. She is passionate about learning and sharing her knowledge with others through her Writers Helping Writers blog and via One Stop For Writers—a powerhouse online library created to help writers elevate their storytelling. You can find Becca online at both of these spots, as well as on Facebook and Twitter.
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8 Responses to Talents and Skills Entry: Good Listening Skills

  1. Ellen says:

    These are fabulous! I’ve been showcasing one of my current characters as being a good listener. I love that he’s not the stereotype listed. I am going to work in some of these ideas. Thanks so much, Becca!

  2. Jade champion says:

    Great trait, there’s the negative and the positive side to it! Great job!

  3. Rosi says:

    I had never thought of a con artist needing this skill, but of course a con artist must. I always learn something when I come here. Thanks for another great post.

  4. Great trait to have!!

  5. :Donna Marie says:

    I can only try to express how grateful I am having discovered you two and your site (and books, though I had the “Emotion” book before finding you online!). These are exactly the kinds of tools I was aching for, making the thinking and research process while building characters, plotting, etc. faster and easier. Anything to do that and save time is a true godsend. Thank you! Also, are you going to compile your “Skills & Talents” thesaurus into a print book to purchase? I SO love actual paper books I can handle, flip through quickly and highlight 😀

    • Thanks for the kind words, Donna! I’m glad we’ve been able to make things a little easier for you.

      As for a book version of the Talents and Skills Thesaurus…who knows :). We’re probably not going to turn all of our thesauri into books; it all depends on which ones are the most beneficial to writers. We’ll keep you posted!

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