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Emotion Thesaurus: Sadness/Grief

Published: February 7, 2008 by ANGELA ACKERMAN

When it comes to emotion, sometimes we need a brainstorming nudge. After all, each character will express their feelings differently depending on their personality, emotional range, and comfort zone. We hope this short, sample list of expressions will help you better imagine how your character might show this emotion!

If you need to go deeper, we have detailed lists of body language, visceral sensations, dialogue cues, and mental responses for 130 emotions in the 2019 expanded second edition of The Emotion Thesaurus: A Writer’s Guide to Character Expression.

SADNESS/GRIEF

· aching, smarting eyes (redness)
· stiff eyelids
· a scratchy throat
· soreness in the throat, lungs
· hyperventilating
· difficulty responding to questions and interacting with people
· uncontrollable crying
· premature aging (wrinkles, tired eyes, gray/white hair)
· weight loss or gain
· sickness
· a desire to live in the past
· suicidal thoughts
· oversensitivity…

Win your readers’ hearts by tailoring your character’s emotional responses so they’re compelling, credible, and realistic.

If you struggle with writing emotions, you aren’t alone. The Emotion Thesaurus: A Writer’s Guide to Character Expression has helped writers all over the globe, and it can help you. To find out more about this bestselling book, please visit our bookstore.

Prefer the flexibility of instant online access and greater searchability?

The Emotion Thesaurus is also at our sister site, One Stop for Writers. Visit the Emotion Thesaurus Page to view our complete list of entries.

TIP: While you’re there, check out our hyper-intelligent Character Builder that helps you create deep, memorable characters in half the time!

ANGELA ACKERMAN
ANGELA ACKERMAN

Angela is a writing coach, international speaker, and bestselling author who loves to travel, teach, empower writers, and pay-it-forward. She also is a founder of One Stop For Writers, a portal to powerful, innovative tools to help writers elevate their storytelling.

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  1. Auyan says

    August 9, 2015 at 3:45 pm

    One thing that makes every situation worse: a headache. Especially when you’re already coping with grief. You’ve been crying, so you’re dehydrated, and you have a splitting headache and are too out of it to figure out why.

    • ANGELA ACKERMAN says

      August 10, 2015 at 1:01 am

      Great observation!

  2. Anonymous says

    January 19, 2012 at 6:08 am

    I just wanted to thank your for your awesome blog! Your thesaurus are very handy. They’ve helped me a lot writing my novel.

  3. Mary Marvella says

    June 23, 2010 at 12:02 am

    Awesome lists of new ways to make a point. We often reuse the some ones over and over, getting stuck in a rut.

  4. The All Real Numbers Symbol says

    July 17, 2009 at 12:46 pm

    Just came across a link to this place, and I must say it is AMAZING. I willl definitely have to remember this blog, as I am sure it will come in very handy as I work on my stories.

    Thank You!!

    – The All Real Numbers Symbol

  5. Becca says

    February 8, 2008 at 12:43 pm

    Glad you find it useful, Luc!

  6. Angela says

    February 7, 2008 at 9:53 pm

    Thanks, Luc!

  7. Luc2 says

    February 7, 2008 at 2:22 pm

    Nice lists, again. Very useful as reference.

    Thank you.

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