Emotion Thesaurus Entry: Shame

When it comes to emotion, sometimes we need a brainstorming nudge. After all, each character will express their feelings differently depending on their personality, emotional range, and comfort zone. We hope this short, sample list of expressions will help you better imagine how your character might show this emotion!

If you need to go deeper, we have detailed lists of body language, visceral sensations, and mental responses for 75 emotions in The Emotion Thesaurus: A Writer’s Guide to Character Expression.


· Mashing the hands against the cheeks
· A vacant or glazed stare
· An inability to make eye contact with others
· Pressing one’s palm over the lips to hold back a cry or words
· Shaking one’s head
· Letting out an uncontrolled moan
· Self-loathing, berating oneself, anger, disgust
· Punching one’s fists against the thighs to release frustration
· Violence to oneself (scratching, cutting, jabbing fingernails into the skin)
· Lashing out at others to transfer anger or blame
· Vandalism of one’s personal objects
· Risk taking, hoping something will happen to balance the scale
· A scruffy look (baggy clothing, unwashed hair)
· Fawning actions toward others—begging, following, even stalking—to try and regain worth…

Win your readers’ hearts by tailoring your character’s emotional responses so they’re compelling, credible, and realistic.

If you struggle with writing emotions, you aren’t alone. The Emotion Thesaurus: A Writer’s Guide to Character Expression has helped writers all over the globe, and it can help you. To find out more about this bestselling book, please visit our bookstore.

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The Emotion Thesaurus is also at our sister site, One Stop for Writers. There, we’ve expanded the entries to include many more emotions such as grief, lust, and self-loathing. Visit the Emotion Thesaurus Page to view our complete list of entries.

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5 Responses to Emotion Thesaurus Entry: Shame

  1. Pingback: Resources For Describing Emotion – SpiritofCamelot

  2. Thanks Brinkka! If you scroll down in the sidebar, there is a box where you put in your email address and you’ll get our posts straight in your email. 🙂

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  4. Angela says:

    Thanks–glad you’re finding this helpful. We have a master list of emotions that we pick from–I’ll make sure ‘annoyance’ is on it.

  5. Anonymous says:

    Ahhhh! I just found this and you guys make me want to cry for joy! THANK YOU! But I have a request. Will you pleeeeeaaasse do ANNOYANCE? I need something besides “rolling the eyes”!

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