Emotion Thesaurus Entry: Loneliness

When it comes to emotion, sometimes we need a brainstorming nudge. After all, each character will express their feelings differently depending on their personality, emotional range, and comfort zone. We hope this short, sample list of expressions will help you better imagine how your character might show this emotion!

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LONELINESS

• People watching, craving contact (visiting a park to feed birds, sitting on the porch)
• Wearing comfort clothes
• Using books, the Internet, or TV to generate a feeling of interaction
• An expression that crumples when people show affection for one another
• A pain in the chest
• A downcast gaze
• Tears, sadness, depression
• Giving an abnormal amount of love and attention to someone or something (daily visits to a neighbor, treating a pet like a baby)
• Bingeing (overeating, hoarding, buying unnecessary items)
• Frequently calling family or friends
• A willingness to talk to strangers just to interact–at the grocery, in the library, etc.
• A disinterest in one’s appearance or an abnormal interest in one’s appearance
• Slumped shoulders, limp posture…

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