Character Trait Entry: Friendly

Definition: Agreeable; open and approachable; a pleasant disposition 

Characters in Literature: Glinda the Good (The Wizard of Oz); Arthur Weasley (Harry Potter)

Common Portrayals: The always-smiling waitress, the well-regarded neighbors who organize events and socials in the community, the bubbly girl who is friends with everyone, the ‘nice’ guy at work who never complains or has anything bad to say about anyone

Clichés to Avoid: Gushy friendliness or friendliness that is too perfect to be believed, the creepy villain who uses attentive friendliness is a ruse, pairing friendliness with perfection (beauty, incredibly talented, etc), a friendly person who is also handicapped

Twists on the Traditional Friendly Character: 

▪ Friendly people are often viewed as having the ‘perfect’ or stress-free life. Why not show someone who is friendly despite great conflict in his or her personal world?

▪ This trait is almost always seen as an asset. Dump your character in a situation where a friendly disposition will put them at a great disadvantage. 

▪ Show a character’s low moments with this personality trait, and how being friendly can also be burdensome. Let the process of wrestling with their feelings about themselves lead to personal growth.

Build a worthy protagonist with a mix of unique strengths that will help him overcome obstacles and achieve meaningful goals.

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LV Cabbie
9 years ago

I’ve got a huge folder for all of this and you can believe it’ll be used a lot for my next novel.

Jeff King
9 years ago

You did it again, thx… I feel better.

Jemi Fraser
9 years ago

Love it! I adore the idea of using their friendliness against them! 🙂

Angela Ackerman
9 years ago

Glad you all like this one. Now get on outside and have some long weekend fun! 🙂



9 years ago

Your posts are always so informative. If I took all of your character trait posts and put them into a story, wow. What a zinger. Avoiding stereotypes is the trick and you have given me some ideas for just that. Thanks for sharing.

Becca Puglisi
9 years ago

I like the idea of showing the Friendly’s low moments. People behave differently in different circumstances, yet authors tend to keep their Friendlies always Friendly, or their Grumpies always Grumpy. Great point.

Bethany Elizabeth
9 years ago

I love the idea of friendly thrown into a bad situation for friendliness. That could be so cool. 🙂
Great post!

9 years ago

Great post! I’d love to read a friendly/judgmental character sometime. The conflicting characteristics are always fun. 🙂