As writers, we want to make our characters as unique and interesting as possible. One way to do this is to give your character a special skill or talent that sets him apart from other people. This might be something small, like having a green thumb or being good with animals, to a larger and more competitive talent like stock car racing or being an award-winning film producer.
When choosing a talent or skill, think about the personality of your character, his range of experiences and who his role models might have been. Some talents might be genetically imparted while others are created through exposure (such as a character talented at fixing watches from growing up in his father’s watch shop) or grow out of interest (archery, wakeboarding, or magic). Don’t be afraid to be creative and make sure the skill or talent is something that works with the scope of the story.
Description: the ability to place oneself deeply within another person’s experience to see their view of the world and better identify with their emotions, concerns, goals and life struggles. NOTE: this entry does not cover Empaths, which is a talent that goes beyond learned empathy.
Beneficial Strengths or Abilities: control over one’s emotions and being able to reject any personal bias that might get in the way of seeing life from another person’s view, perceptiveness and knowing what questions to ask, strong listening …
Character Traits Suited for this Skill or Talent: curious, kind, understanding, objective, honest, calm, encouraging…
Required Resources and Training: to hone one’s empathy, a character must open themselves to other people, their thoughts, perceptions and experiences, and be able to view these as having as much value as their own personal ones. Listening–really listening–means not rushing in with advice or expressing sympathy or pity. Empathy is acknowledging another person’s emotion as being valid, and seating oneself in their viewpoint to better experience their perspective.
Learning to be open-minded and set aside one’s own experiences and interactions…
Associated Stereotypes and Perceptions:
- The misconception that people with empathy are bleeding hearts who can’t make hard choices
- People who show empathy build trust quickly
- Empathy creates balanced leadership…
Scenarios Where this Skill Might be Useful: in friendship and relationships, in careers that focus on social sciences, mental health and well-being, human advocacy groups, politics and leadership, communication and diplomacy…
Resources for Further Information:
Six Habits of Highly Empathetic People
Five Ways To Grow Your Empathy
Talents and skills not only make our characters stand out, they often help them attain their goals. So choosing them strategically can greatly enhance both the character and the story.
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Angela is a writing coach, international speaker, and bestselling author who loves to travel, teach, empower writers, and pay-it-forward. She also is a founder of One Stop For Writers, a portal to powerful, innovative tools to help writers elevate their storytelling.
Elease Singh says
Thanks for sharing. I find myself to have one of those traits.
Julie Musil says
Looove this trait. Actually, I think I’ll use this with the manuscript I just started 🙂
ANGELA ACKERMAN says
Awesome! Glad you can use this, Julie!
:Donna Marie says
Yet another great trait! Thank you, Angela! And guess what?!!!! I was at our NJ SCBWI Craft Day today, and while waiting for the dinner portion of the day, I found myself sitting next to a college senior who’s focusing on kidlit. In our conversation he was mentioning how he loves doing exercises for character sketches and guess which book he pulled out of his bag? 😀 😀 😀 The Emotion Thesaurus!!! 😀 I almost jumped out of my chair lol He wasn’t aware of your other two, but NOW he is! 🙂 I’m guessing that in his college one of his professors is recommending your book to the students 😀 😀 😀
ANGELA ACKERMAN says
Wow! I love stories like this. It is incredible how far word of that book has spread. And thank you for sharing that we have more books out too! You da best!