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Character Skills & Talents: Gaining People’s Trust

Published: February 7, 2015 by BECCA PUGLISI

Choosing a talent or skill that fits with your character’s personality, lifestyle, and values can go a long way to helping them break free of the common stereotypes seen so often in fiction. This thesaurus will help you find the perfect quality or two that will show readers your character’s uniqueness while also acting as an asset when it comes to goal achievement.

When choosing a talent or skill, think about the personality of your character, his range of experiences and who his role models might have been. Some talents might be genetically imparted while others are created through exposure (such as a character talented at fixing watches from growing up in his father’s watch shop) or grow out of interest (archery, wakeboarding, or magic). Don’t be afraid to be creative and make sure the skill or talent is something that works with the scope of the story. 

Gaining People’s Trust

Description: Being skilled at getting people to confide in you

Beneficial Strengths or Abilities: being able to read people well, being a good listener, having a knack…

Character Traits Suited for this Skill or Talent: attentive, nurturing, discerning, observant, charming, perceptive…

Required Resources and Training: Being a confidant is more of a natural gift than a trained skill. There are just some people that others feel at ease with; people instinctively trust them and feel comfortable sharing their private feelings. Some confidants…

Associated Stereotypes:  grandmothers, aunts, and other maternal types; the quiet member of a girl clique; therapists and psychologists…

Scenarios Where this Skill Might be Useful:

  • when a character has a secret that needs to be revealed to readers
  • when your character needs information that someone else has
  • when a character needs to bribe or blackmail someone…

TIP: Choose a talent or skill that makes your character memorable and helps them achieve their goals.

If this is something you’d like to learn more about, you might find these resources helpful. You can also see the full collection of talent and skill entries in their entirety at One Stop For Writers, where all our thesauruses are cross-referenced and linked for easy navigation. If you’re interested in seeing a free sampling of the Talent and Skill Thesaurus and our other descriptive collections, head on over and register at One Stop!

BECCA PUGLISI
BECCA PUGLISI

Becca Puglisi is an international speaker, writing coach, and bestselling author of The Emotion Thesaurus and its sequels. Her books are available in five languages, are sourced by US universities, and are used by novelists, screenwriters, editors, and psychologists around the world. She is passionate about learning and sharing her knowledge with others through her Writers Helping Writers blog and via One Stop For Writers—a powerhouse online library created to help writers elevate their storytelling.

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  1. Julie Musil says

    February 8, 2015 at 7:56 pm

    Love this post! “Being a good listener” is an excellent way to be a good confidant.

  2. Joe Kovacs says

    February 8, 2015 at 9:32 am

    Becca, thanks for this insight on providing characters with unusual or stand-out traits. In a lot of stories, the kind of “stand-out” trait that you discuss here is often directly reflective of the character’s nature or stands in direct contrast of their nature. Captain Ahab has a prosthetic leg, or whatever it was–wood, maybe–that served as a replacement leg in the 19th century in Moby Dick. While yes, he physically lost that leg while whaling, the missing leg is also often interpreted as reflective of Ahab’s flawed, stunted nature (monomania). In films like The Mask (with Eric Stolz), the protagonist’s unusually distorted face stands in direct contrast to his kindly nature. You offer some great scenarios above where the character trait you discuss can be used to great effect. Developing that trait as something that speaks to the character’s nature (in other words, making the trait part of character development in addition to a device that advances plot), deepens its power as well. Nice job.

  3. Traci Kenworth says

    February 7, 2015 at 8:34 pm

    I love the idea of girl dynamics–too often we see girl pitted against girl for the attention of a guy. It’s nice to reflect that not all females or males for that matter, are rivals for their best friend’s other half.

  4. Hiten Vyas says

    February 7, 2015 at 3:23 pm

    Hi Becca,

    This was really interesting article, and I really appreciate the way you described how a confidant character can be created. It reminded me a little of the way I am in real life! Thank you.

  5. :Donna says

    February 7, 2015 at 2:04 pm

    Love this trait! Another great one to put focus on, Becca. Thank you! 😀

    • BECCA PUGLISI says

      February 7, 2015 at 8:15 pm

      Thanks, Donna! I came up for the idea for this one from reading Queen Bees and Wannabes, which talks about girl dynamics and the different roles that girls often play within cliques. The confidant is one of them. The book was so interesting that I’m thinking of writing a series of posts on girl dynamics and how authors can use the information to write girls/women realistically, or how the information can be used to flip the cliché. I hope this one comes in handy for you!

      • :Donna says

        February 7, 2015 at 9:54 pm

        Becca, EVERYthing you ladies put out here for us comes in handy 😀

  6. Carleen M. Tjader says

    February 7, 2015 at 10:26 am

    Thank you for this post. I am new to this website and already I love it!

    • BECCA PUGLISI says

      February 7, 2015 at 8:15 pm

      Welcome, Carleen! So glad you found us :).

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