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Act Like A Professional

June 29, 2021 by Writing Coach

Now that in-person conferences are back, it’s a good time to review proper etiquette for these gatherings. I’ve been teaching at writers conferences for over twenty years, and I’ve seen a ton of aspiring writers in various stages of disequilibrium. Everyone wants to get a book contract and everyone’s a little scared they never will. They hear stories about the odds and it sends shivers to the tips of their typing fingers. 

Those who persevere have a chance. 

In the course of these conference years I’ve seen a number of writers who have gotten that contract and gone on to be published by major houses. I’ve even helped a few get there, which is nice. And while it’s nearly impossible to judge why one manuscript makes it and another—which is comparable or even better—does not, I have made note of one item: The overwhelming majority of writers I’ve seen make it are those who look and act like a professional.

When you meet unpublished writers who act like pros, you form the immediate impression that it’s only a matter of time before they make it. This impression is not lost on agents and editors. 

So what are the marks of a professional? 

Grooming

Successful writers-in-waiting look professional. They do not come off as slobs or slackers. They dress sharply though unpretentiously. They say you can’t judge a book by its cover, but we do it all the time with people. Don’t shoot down your first impression by looking unkempt or having stink-breath that can kill low flying birds.

Industry Knowledge

Professionals know something about their profession. They spend time reading blogs and books and the trades, though not to the exclusion of their writing.

To the Point

A pro has the ability to focus on what the other person (e.g., an agent) will find valuable and, most important, can deliver that in a concise and persuasive manner. You should be able to tell someone, in 30 seconds or less, what your book is about, in such a way that the person can immediately see its potential. 

Courtesy

Common courtesy goes a long way, especially these days. If you have an appointment with an agent, be there two minutes early. When you’re done, thank them. Follow up with a short and appropriate e-mail.  Don’t call them unless you’ve been invited to. Don’t get angry or petulant, even if there’s a reason for it. Burning bridges is never a good career move.

Take Action Every Day

Over the long haul, a successful professional in any field is always in a growth mode. Be looking for ways to improve—in your craft and in your social skills. When you do this, day after day, you begin to build momentum. That, in turn, will fuel your confidence and keep you going. And there is nothing an unpublished writer needs more than motivation to keep going. 

Keep writing. Keep learning. And act like a pro. 

James Scott Bell

Resident Writing Coach

Jim is the author of the #1 bestseller for writers, Plot & Structure, and numerous thrillers, including Romeo’s Rules, Try Dying and Don’t Leave Me. His popular books on fiction craft can be found here. His thrillers have been called “heart-whamming” (Publishers Weekly) and can be browsed here. Find out more about Jim on our Resident Writing Coach page, and connect with him on
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  1. Jack says

    July 1, 2021 at 4:33 am

    Thanks for sharing! https://writershelpingwriters.net/2021/07/procrastination-vs-real-writing-crisis-how-to-tell-the-difference/

  2. James Scott Bell says

    June 29, 2021 at 3:49 pm

    Hi Sienna, and thanks for the good word (up front). I am a tad flummoxed at the criticism though, since I made no assumptions whatsoever. This post was for those who intend to go to a physical conference with an eye on traditional publishing. I’m not assuming this is right for every writer. Far from it! I’ve been an advocate for self publishing for over a decade, and all my books are now indie. But this was not a post about the merits of demerits of the two writing paths.

    And Angela is right. This advice also works for anyone who networks.

    Hope that clears things up.

  3. Sienna Bloom says

    June 29, 2021 at 9:48 am

    Jim, I’m a big fan and have read at least half of your writercraft books. I subscribe to your newsletter. So please forgive this criticism. It is WRONG to assume that ALL writers want anything to do with Traditional Publishers. Are you paying any attention to the current world of published books? Inde Publishing is HUGE. I personally would Never attention ba conference. I’m an introvert. But I also would not query. Traditional Publishers are horrible to non celebrities. They don’t market very much, they never advertise backlists. They are worthless to those of use who love to write but don’t spend hours a day on social media. Please write to a bigger audience when you give advice. At least stop assuming we are all the same.

    • ANGELA ACKERMAN says

      June 29, 2021 at 3:15 pm

      Hi Sienna, thanks for commenting. 🙂

      I’m thinking with Jim’s long history of teaching at cons he’s definitely seen a bulk of folks looking to place their books traditionally and so is providing an example from those experiences. You’re right though that these days we see a split (unless the conference is specific to traditional or self-publishing, then numbers skew to that focus). But this advice is sound for any type of writer, because while we may not be there to pitch a book, we certainly want to make the most of networking opportunities.

      Conferences are a great opportunity to ask thoughtful questions of experts when we catch them in the hall between sessions, or in one-on-ones if we’ve signed up for blue pencils, or even via small-group discussions with influencers during social chit-chats. All our peers are on their own journeys too, and can offer up information and experience to help us through our own gaps of knowledge, and even have connections we lack. It’s all about building genuine relationships. 🙂

      No matter what path a writer is on, we want to get the most value from an event, and being professional in our interactions is how we put our best foot forward.

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