Character Traits Thesaurus Entry: Proper

Definition: strictly accurate; decorous; marked by suitability, rightness, and appropriateness

Characters in literature: Aunt Alexandra (To Kill a Mockingbird), Miss Rachel (Anne of Green Gables), members of The Daughters of the American Revolution (Beautiful Creatures)

Common CharacteristicsUse proper manner of speaking, dress neatly, keep a tidy house, follow a predictable schedule, are aware of the perception of others, firm disciplinarians, often heard quoting the whys and wherefores of propriety (age-old sayings, Bible verses, quotes from literature and famous figures in history, etc.).

Clichés to AvoidThe proper woman married to a beaten-down, lazy man. The hypocritical Proper, following the rules in one area of life and serving himself in another. 

Twists on the Traditional Proper Character:

  • Since propers characters are often portrayed negatively, make their motivations pure.
  • Give your proper character a disgusting or unnerving habit that seems completely appropriate to her.
  • Instead of mixing things up by throwing an improper character into proper society, drop your character into a society that doesn’t value such things. Let the character cause a positive shake-up, for a change.

Build a worthy protagonist with a mix of unique strengths that will help him overcome obstacles and achieve meaningful goals.

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11 Responses to Character Traits Thesaurus Entry: Proper

  1. Christine says:

    Every time I hit the entry for “reckless” I get sent to “proper”. Perhaps there is a broken link…

    Thanks!

  2. alaw says:

    I think it was a good choice! 🙂

  3. It is the Captain. I thought it would work because he’s very proper, but he also wasn’t a yes-man, by any means. I thought of Mary Poppins too, because she was proper, but she was also very untraditional. This trait was interesting because there seem to be a lot of different proper characters out there.

  4. alaw says:

    Hey, that picture is of the Captain from The Sound of Music, isn’t it?

  5. Just what I needed to spruce up a character I’ve been working on. Thanks of the info!!

  6. Mary Witzl says:

    So few people are every purely proper. I personally like the idea of a clumsy Proper.

    I’m a big fan of James Herriot’s vet memoirs. He had a wonderful story about a very proper woman cursed with a farting dog, which Susan’s comment made me remember.

  7. Okay, I just read Susan’s comment and I completely forgot what I wanted to say because I’m laughing so hard. That’s just too funny!

  8. Melody says:

    Ahhhhhh, I got so many Shiny New Ideas from this!!! 🙂 Not sure if that’s good or bad. 🙂

  9. ralfast says:

    Very common when you want to demonstrate a clash of cultures or generations.

  10. I think it would be absolutely hysterical to give a Proper a serious case of flatulence…

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